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About Me

I'm known as Hornet/Rhea around the internet these days, but I've had many different names over the years (Pathos, JB, Jaybee, Lily, Nyx, Nexus, Leviathan, Pestilence, Ruby, Hornet); you can call me whatever you like as long as it's not derogatory or intended to be harmful! I've been roleplaying for approximately 18 years now (I'll let you figure out my age from that) and have written on many different forums. I hail from Australia, live in Canada, love Harry Potter and Musical Theatre more than is healthy, and I love to code and write in my free time. I also talk way too much about my three cats (Luke, Leia, and Lily) and my three snakes (Acheron, Meliae, and Rhea) so I apologise in advance.

I am on one site right now (with a large cast) and revamping another so I am not interested in joining another site at this time; if that is your intention, that won't work. I don't do 1x1 roleplaying or non-forum based roleplaying. I would love it if someone would join me at my currently open site (an original supernatural rpg, modern world).

Sites I play on now

Play Style

Communication is the most important thing when it comes to roleplaying with me. I don't like people who god-mod or power play without permission (unless you know me or my characters very well, and even then it is within reason) and I don't like people who try to strong-arm plots that are just not going to work (not everything has to be positive). Talk to me if you're not sure, ask what my character would do, give me the opportunity to participate. I am, however, a big believer in actions having consequences (and the lack of plot armour being important); if a character makes a stupid decision to poke a bear, then the author (me included) cannot save them from being mauled without good reason.


I'm online and talking every day, though I probably only post every couple of days on average. Some days, if I have nothing else going on, I can post a few times a day. It's important that whoever wants to become a friend of mine can at least commit to posting a couple of times a week. I average around 600 words a post though my posts range from 300-1000+ words. I don't expect a partner to match what I post every time, but someone who posts within that same range would be a better fit for my style.


Sex, language, and violence don't make me uncomfortable regardless of the extremity. There are some fetishes that are a little too far for me, and if those come up we can discuss them further, but as the site does not have a focus on fetishes, I don't foresee it being an issue. To that point, however, I don't like writing sex or violence just for the sake of it; if it exists in a thread, then it should have a purpose there. I'm certainly not against writing it and I am happy to adapt to how a partner wants to write it, but it has to make sense for the storyline.


There are not many limits that I have in character; as noted above, I do have some fetishes that are a little extreme but I don't anticipate those coming up. I won't write animal abuse.

Plots I'd Like

When it comes to plots, I'm open to most ideas; there's not really much that I won't do. I already have a few characters who are all open for a variety of plots so feel free to throw what you have at me. I'm definitely a sucker for plots that evolve organically; I refuse to do 'finals' plots (are those still a thing?) and I prefer not to over plot future things. The more unexpected things are, the more I find that the ideas just make sense. Some things I'm looking for/interested in right now:


  • Unrequited love (this is an FxF plot & up as a request that's more plot than wanted ad).
  • Former lovers who are still in love (this is an FxF plot & up as a request that's more plot than wanted ad).
  • Mother/sister figure who is good at giving advice.
  • Former friends who grew up in the upper class and took different paths.

I have many other ideas that I am willing to discuss with people as well. I have a bunch of characters that I am playing with and developing (though I'm probably not going to make more until I have those sorted out). I want a buddy that is 18+, willing to communicate, will work with me to make ideas work, and who is open about things that make them uncomfortable (I am happy to adjust my style to avoid triggering you, etc).

As an additional note, stories are important to me; I like to be surprised by characters and don't like to plot too much in advance in order to allow things to develop naturally. I love to explore characters with other people and build on them. I don't do finals and try to avoid love triangles unless there is a compelling story behind it. I'm not against writing darker, grittier stuff but I am also open to happier and more fluffy stuff as well, it really depends on how interesting the story.

Other Information

You might be the right fit as my buddy if:

  • You're over the age of eighteen.
  • You're interested in telling a compelling story.
  • You're not against plots that don't have a happy ending.
  • You're excited to learn new things about your character.
  • You're willing to join an already established site.
  • You're able to focus on furthering the plot (where possible) in a post.
  • You're not concerned about 'picspam' over plot.
  • You're capable of posting in the 300+ word range.


A few final thoughts from me:

  • You're welcome to contact me on Discord at NyxDarklore#0871 to discuss ideas further before committing.
  • Please remember that I am not looking to join additional sites (or do 1x1 roleplaying) at this time. Sorry!

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